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How to Find Your Best Lover
By Randall Curtis
Certainly, you could argue that hormones are stronger than good sense and that's why so many of us do foolish things that really hurt in our relationships. I guess that's why most of us seem destined to fulfill that old adage, "Fools walk in where angels fear to tread."
But we can't always blame our hormones for making bad relationship decisions by connecting to the wrong people. There other less obvious reasons.
The most important reason is that we simply do not really know those people who attract us. Most of us simply do not have enough accurate information about the other person. We simply go by what we see and what we feel.
Yes, I know, there are tons of dating sites that claim that their profiles are very accurate and that they can help you find your true love. But there are endless stories of how people were deceived by these shallow and inadequate profiles.
Believe me, this is a deadly trap that you need to seriously avoid. So, what can you do?
I say without an ounce of reservation that you use astrology. Now, before you run away, I know that you have probably had some kind of experience with those automatic, astrological compatibility lover reports that have been very disappointing and just as inadequate, the psychological profiles. But, I am talking about some very important discoveries I have made over the 50 years I have been doing this.
First, it is important to realize that human beings are very complex and are often created with several conflicts. When you bring your own attitudes and desires into relationship with another person, you create a harmonious or negative energy field. The sad thing that usually happens is that you had no idea that such conflicts would ever arise between you.
The conclusion is that you need more accurate information and better analytical tools than those created by psychologists and computerized astrology reports. If you want to find your best lover, you have to know how your inner chemistry works with the other person. Otherwise, you are playing romantic roulette and traveling where "angels fear to tread." So, I am going to give you a helpful tool.
Yes, I am going to give you an astrological tool, but you will soon learn that this is one of the best tools you can use to see if a relationship has a chance.
Here's what you need to find out if a person will really like you or if you will end up not liking them. This can help you determine if you should even get involved in the relationship.
1. Get a copy of your astrological chart by going to alabe.com.
2. When you have the printed chart, look for the planet Saturn and what sign it is in. Saturn looks like an "h" and the sign may look like the horns of a ram (Aries) or some other sign symbol.
3. Then you look at the chart of a potential lover and see if their Venus is in the same sign as your Saturn. Do you remember what Venus looks like? It is a circle with a cross underneath the circle.
4. If your Saturn is in the same sign as their Venus, you will end up not liking them. Of course, you may feel this right away when you meet them, but this is a way to confirm your intuition.
5. Likewise, if their Saturn is in the same sign as your Venus, they will end up not liking you.
Please don't take my word for any of this. It is best to find this out for yourself. It is only one of the many tools that astrology can offer you to determine what a relationship is really like. If you would like to learn more, just check out my website below.
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