From a Female Leo in reference to a Male Gemini
knew this man would change my life and I didn't have a whole lot of say in the
matter...or at least my ego defenses didn't. The fear we both have faced and
conquered was the feeling of uniting and wanting to melt into the other, shut
out the world and just "be" one. We are both very independent and strong
individuals that had to learn to allow love to conquer fear. Part of our soul
agreement has been to reflect to the other the best and gently coax out the
shadow and allow light where the dark reigned. This sounds dramatic and it was,
but we took the gift from God we have discovered in ourselves and grew from our
fears. This is a journey we agreed to at another time and another place and at
times it was the only thing that kept us in alignment with our soul's intent.
We didn't see each other for an entire year while we worked on our issues
independently but kept in communication by email. We c
an both tell you we were never out of psychic communication. He refers to it as
the "dark ages" :)
We learned to trust and love unconditionally and most importantly we taught each
other to know who they are and to be able to communicate that with at least one
other person with the kind of honesty that sets your soul free, unfettered and
capable of such love and empathy.
To give you a visual to work with we think of "us" as equal in spiritual
maturity and soul development or evolvement. We have an identical soul agenda
and an intent to integrate the other gender energy (anima/animus). Sometimes it
is me that needs a lift "up" and he reaches down and extends his energy to me.
Sometimes it is him who needs the lift. Think of the spiral dance of the double
helix of the DNA....we spin in our independent world doing our "stuff" and the
other is always aware of the others mind, body and spirit condition. We never
feel the other is far from our own soul spirit. It ALWAYS works out that the
one who needs the lift is on the higher level ready to nurture, coax or
sometimes badger the other into taking that step "up" rather than down. Truth?
Oh my :) I'm sure you'll see my Leo Sun is well balanced by his Leo Moon. He
is the only person that is not intimidated by my ego defense of "back off or
I'll bite". He saw thru to my Pisces Moon and new I!
was a kitten with a very big mouth and killer eyes that told the truth. My
Gemini Asc. matches his Sun quite well. We cant hide or lie to the other. I
know every trick he has because I have used them myself and I know the dance
steps. I call him on it without judging him for using the footwork. That's my
job and he does the same for me. I will also tell you that until we got a
handle on who we were to one another it is a very uncomfortable feeling of
vulnerability of knowing the other knows "who you are", warts and all without
you ever telling them a single secret. I am a therapist and we all dread
someone knowing who we really are behind our mask of the persona. Having mine
ripped off by a stranger was one of the most disturbing events of my life. It
is flattering and frightening at the same time. My Mars in Taurus didn't take
well to anything he said or did that bristled my Lion's mane seeing thru me and
my "stuff". One of our saving graces from these harsh emotional intrusions cracking our wall of false pride and fear was our (both) Venus
in Cancer. We both knew instinctively from day one there was nothing he could
do, or I, that would make either of us hurt the other intentionally. Nothing.
We have always felt grateful for knowing that and taking the couple of years to
"be" that without though.
We are sure we are now moving into our "purpose" if you will. We are feeling
compelled to come out to the world and join forces and spread the word about the
potential of truth and honesty in relationship....we are not sure what that word
is supposed to be exactly or how that might manifest, but we feel the gentle
push. We have both studied metaphysics, philosophy, psychology and religion.
We met through a numerology group! We were both Numerologists.
So that is our life story :) I don't know how the planets might align to
identify twins but we see it in our numerology charts. It was the thing that
got my attention first. I looked at his chart and thot....oh oh an 11, I need
to stay out of his psyche...ha! fat chance.
From a Female Virgo in reference to a Male Scorpio
I do not believe there are any certain qualities that 'prove' or 'disprove'
whether two people are twin flames or not - I believe it comes from much deeper
within and the outside shell & qualities proves very little since so many of us
have lived so many different lives. These are merely the human body forms we
chose this time around - I truly believe you will know and recognize each other
and both will just know without question. Many times the two seperate lives
have lead different lives on two separate places geographically but the
incidences and occurrences in their lives have been very similar. Many same
interests or deep seeded beliefs no matter how different from the 'main stream'.
I am clairvoyant / clairaudio and have been somewhat in touch with my own
abilities since the age of 9. I know now without a doubt that my Guides, the
Team that surrounds us have an upper hand in offering the two of us two be
brought back together - as they do many different people. Bott!om line is that it is up to each individual to be strong enough to choose to do
whatever possible once the two mates have been found. It's not always pure
Bliss and it's absolutely not alway pure peace - the chaos and roller coaster of
emotions can be extreme - but on the other side of that statement is some of the
most wonderfully blissful erotic euphoric states of Love that two could ever